“I was at an unhealthy weight and worked hard to lose 30 pounds. Now that I’m thinner I’ve been experimenting with wearing clothes that are a little more stylish and fitted instead of the bulky ones I was hiding in before. My husband says I am getting prideful, and that I am trying to lure other men at church with my new clothes and thinner figure. He says I should get rid of my new clothes. When I tell him I just want to feel good about how I look, he tells me I’m being a rebellious woman by not submitting to him. Am I?”